A Book That Left Me Feeling Meh - Here's the Lowdown
Hello everyone!
I was in the mood for something life-changing, and this book had been lurking in my bookmarks, so I finally read it – lucky for me, it wasn’t too long.
The Man Who Wanted to Be Happy, by Laurent Gunther
The Man Who Wanted to Be Happy, Laurent Gunther
I read the e-book version, so I don’t have a photo of the cover, but you can check out the main image on the thread.
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Cost of the e-book: 259 rub, paperback: 371 rub
Rating on LiveLib: 4.2
Age restrictions: 16+
I had about 160 pages on my phone
Author: Laurent Gunther
About the Book
Everyone dreams of finding happiness. But often, this dream never comes true. We’re constantly held back by external circumstances that seem insurmountable at first glance. Julian, the hero of Laurent Gunther’s novel, is young, healthy, good-looking – and utterly unhappy with his life, despite having no objective reason to be.
When he finds himself on Bali, he stumbles upon a remote village hidden deep in the tropical jungle, where he meets an old healer named Santijang. The island has all sorts of legends about him. This wise old man treats not the body, but the soul. And he knows the truth that can change the world around us: what we believe in becomes our reality and shapes our lives.
My Experience with the Book
I haven’t read a life-affirming book in ages, so I’d forgotten what they usually write about – basically, the hero, Julian, gets himself completely lost in life and ends up on a trip to Bali, I’ve forgotten how, but he shows up at his teacher’s (the wise man, guru…), to put him back on the right path, and they have a few meetings where they discuss this or that issue, the wise man gives Julian tasks, opportunities for reflection – the idea is that, by the end of the book, the hero should find the truth and learn to live...
I’d love to be happy, Laurent Gunell
This book has 20 short chapters, each divided by numbers, making it a breeze to read.
I finished the book in one evening, and you can too – it’s that easy. I mean, you could even read it diagonally if you wanted to, but there’s nothing particularly earth-shattering in here.
I’d love to be happy, Laurent Gunell
Pros and Cons
I’d recommend this book to people who are feeling hopeless, as it might give them a glimmer of hope for the future. However, I didn’t find the book particularly inspiring, and the author comes across as a bit too self-assured in his claims of being the truth.
The author claims that people who believe in a higher power live 29% longer than atheists. That’s an interesting claim, but I’d love to see the source of this statistic – is it a real study, or just something the author made up?
The book preaches that money isn’t everything and that you can heal through faith and prayer. But, I have to ask, what’s the point of science and medicine if we can just pray our way to health?
I’d love to be happy, Laurent Gunell
While there might be some useful insights in the book, I found myself getting bogged down by the author’s views on topics I strongly disagree with.
I was also given tasks to complete, like moving back home for a lot of money to see the wise man one last time. But when Julian arrived for the meeting, the wise man was nowhere to be found. He had left a note saying what I should do. I would have been angry, but I’m not that enlightened or wise, because you don’t need to be angry, and you’ll find out what you need to do in the book.
My Final Thoughts
I read it as just a story, without really digging into the advice. There’s plenty of that stuff online and on bloggers’ sites anyway, so it’s just up to you whether to follow the advice or not. Nothing really changed in my mind, so it’s all good. I’m not even sure if I’d recommend the book, I’ll give it three stars and recommend it, but don’t blindly follow all the advice – listen to yourself… Just sitting and thinking the right way won’t help, unfortunately.
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